help me? Partner cheating on me

[lockdownmumma123]

Ladies, I've been posting a lot on here for parenting advice I'm a FTM and always find the advice so helpful! So can you help me with this one?

Basically my partner is cheating on me, he had a meltdown at XMAS time and asked for space I was pregnant at the time, I have just found out he was having sex with another woman, a couple weeks ago I found out I forgave him ( stupidly ) but now I have discovered he has a Snapchat account speaking to woman, including this girl he cheated with at XMAS asking her for videos and other woman too, I confronted him he denied it even though I had the proof there in black and white, I want to end the relationship but I don't know how?

he is at football training just now, we have a house together and our daughter is 6 months, I don't have a great relationship with my mum that would make me want to move back home? I can't afford this house myself, I'm scared he will threaten to take my daughter away if I end the relationship, help me?

You need to separate. You don't need to stay with someone who cheats on you simply because you don't have a good relationship with your mother and can't afford that house on your own! Tell him it's over and start making plans. Do you have a job to go back to after mat leave?

So how many times will you forgive him... u caught him out time and tine again. It’s so hard when you have kids and a house together. U need to seriously think about urself and ur child. What if u sold the house and went half’s you could find a accommodation even a flat. Please dnt torment yourself. Life is to short hun. Are you married to him?

Even if he threatens to take the baby, he can't. So don't let that worry sway your decision. I'm sorry you're going through this. Would your mum - or friend - give you some support if you tell them what's happened? I would hope that even if you don't have the best relationship, your mum would be there for you and the baby in a horrible situation like this.