Please be my mental support network

[AtLastEarwax]

Hi all,

I don't know if I have a support system?? I have my mum and sister. My dad would support if he had to I suppose - not sure lol is this a support system??

If not will anyone be mine?!

Please tell me I can get through today

My 3yo is in his room after a huge tantrum and hitting me. I'm just getting my 11m old twins ready. They have been having breakfast. I'm slow as I've got severe back ache that my doctor has put down to my 'lifestyle' not sure if that means being busy with the kids or not being active more. Hubby is in bed as he had a vasectomy yesterday so resting.

I've cried lol - without the children seeing of course but please tell me I will make it. I can't even stand up ffs to meet my children's needs. Feel like a pathetic excuse of a mummy

A 3 year old and 11 month old twins! Wow, what an amazing job you are doing. I’ve got a 2 year old daughter and can’t imagine how hard some days must be for you. Things sound hard with your husband being laid up in bed but remember that’s only temp so in a few days when he’s back on his feet that’s your time to rest! Having kids is hard and tiring but just remember they think the world of you 😊

Oh you poor love. You sound like you’re having a terrible time today. I can barely look after myself when my back goes, let alone a family of 5! You’re doing so well. Go and have another cry if you need to. This is temporary x

Thankyou both, I got through it and after naps teatime was great. I was sad to put them to bed. They all tried mushrooms and loved them and we had the best time playing ghosts.

I made it after a crap morning

Love your words of encouragement 😘😘😘