So basically, on Tuesday 1st September, my 4.5 month old rolled off the settee and he's grazed his nose. I left him sleeping on the settee (yes I know I was wrong about doing that. I just nipped to the toilet for about 3 minutes and I usually put him in his cot. I hate myself for it). There was a bit of blood in his nose so I rang 111. They told me to go to A&E. So I did. And I was sent to a pediatrician because of his age etc. For safe guarding. Which is fine. The Dr I saw there asked me questions so I told him. He didn't explain anything to me, left, and came back with a camera. Took pictures of his face and his Mongolian blue spot birth mark (my lb is mixed race) then went again and came back and said he had rang social services and I have to stay in so my lb can have a head to toe scan/x ray. I thought the social services was just protocol until I spoke to the Dr that came to see me the next day. She was really nice and explained everything to me and at the end she said that social services are contacted when all scans are done to arrange a strategy meeting because they go by medical first. Not one Dr or nurse has concerns. All his bloods, x rays, CT and eye test have been fine. I got a phone call from the ss saying they're going to visit my other two children about what happened. Obvs they backed my story up but the Dr said they shouldn't have even been out and was really shocked. The social worker then rang me and said they'd had a meeting with a professional and that Dr has raised concerns so she's on her way with a police officer. So I called a nurse in and asked about it. She went to find out and came back to tell me no one knows what's going on. They're still trying to find this Dr. He hasn't written any notes down in the strategy meeting. Nothing. So he's said it and not written it down. They have no clue as to what's going on. So I was questioned by the police officer and I told them what happened. And they said no further action. Today, he was given the all clear to be discharged by the Dr's. The head nurse called the social worker to advise her about this as they needed approval from ss to allow me to go home. The social worker has turned around and said the nurses word isn't good enough and she wants to hear it from a Dr.
Has anyone had this experience before? I feel like it's been taken way ott. I know that safe guarding is an amazing thing and it saves children who are being abused. But I just feel like I'm being accused of doing something I haven't done. Thank you.