Some advise please

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Hi I was just wondering if anyone of you could give me any advise please a friend of mine is going threw a really tough time she's single and seeing how things go with her baby daddy and her daughter doesn't want her to have a boyfriend or anything so when baby daddy sleeps over she goes moody always watching what she's doing always keeping an eye on her mum and it isn't just this guy it's any guy her mum isn't allowed to be near any guy at all if her mum has a male friend to visit she's causes a sine so the lad feels uncomfortable she has no friends please is there anything she can do to change her daughters ways thanks

How old is the daughter? Why is she inviting a man who she is not in a relationship to stay over night when her daughter is around? No wonder the poor child doesn’t know where she stands.

If you have a daughter you can’t behave the way you behaved when you were single. It’s bad enough for the child that the ‘baby daddy’ comes and goes. She shouldn’t have to deal with other men staying the night. This young woman needs to make some friends and concentrate on bringing up her daughter.

No my friend was in a relationship for 3 years with the baby daddy broken up about 6 months ago and has baby daddy staying over has there working on things see how things go and she has just male friends nothing eles just friends

The ‘baby daddy’ should be be coming and going in front of the daughter it’s far too confusing.

Ok thanks

How old is her daughter? Not that is really matters, you absolutely cannot have random men in and out of the house when you have kids. Is the "baby daddy" her daughter's daddy? If not, your friend should be doing her shagging when her child is out of the house. Her child isnt comfortable with these men, so they can't be there.

Yeah I think thats what it means.

Your 'friend' needs to structure the fathers visits better and not have randoms stay over - even if they are just friends. From a childs perspective its confusing.