I need some advise because I’m at a loss. My little girl (2 yr 3 months) used to be so good at playing with children and she still loves playing with children but recently she’s been having trouble sharing and shouts “mine” and snatches toys. I try and talk to her and explain that it’s unkind and show her how she is making the other child feel/need to take turns but usually she’s screaming so loud about the situation that’s it hard to chat and reason with her.
I’m especially struggling with play dates with my brother and sister in law. They have two children 4 and 1 and neither of them have this issue. They are really judgy parents, they don’t say anything to me but they talk a lot about other kids and parents so I can only imagine what they say about us now. Today we went to their house for a play date and we ended up leaving early with a screaming toddler because she didn’t share for the 3rd time. It was so embarrassing and my partner heard my brother say “I can’t get involved, I need to go upstairs” and walk away. I just feel so heartbroken and want to cry. I don’t know what to do, my DD is otherwise such a lovely girl and is usually so well behaved at home, this is a very new thing and I can’t stand the thought that she is becoming a child that people (especially family) might not want to be around :(