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FTM questioning sudden new sleep pattern

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babbafett · 15/08/2020 07:54

I'm prepared to be flamed and told to just relax but I'm a FTM, who suffers with anxiety (for which I'm getting support for) and due to covid I don't have the same real life support network around me right now.
My DS turns 10 weeks today. He has always been an easy going baby apart from being a velcro baby. Day time naps are always on me or DH. He tends to wake fairly quickly once put down during the day. This used to be the same a night time but in the last 3/4 weeks he has been able to do long stretches in his side sleeper.
Here is my question, he used to wake about 3 times for a feed between midnight and half 7, then went down to twice,then once and for the last three nights in a row he has slept from approx 10pm to 6/6:30am when he up for the day. This morning he didn't even seem to be that much of a rush for his bottle but I made one anyway and he had the full 6oz (he usually has between 4-6oz at every feed). He was all smiles and coos,no crying when he woke up so he appeared quite content and not ravenous. His last bottle was the night before at 8pm and it was 6:40am when he woke up. That seemed like an enormous amount of time in between.
He still thrashes about in the night and I have to put his dummy back in a million times so my sleep is still a bit patchy and I've been panicking that during one of these thrashing about moments, he was actually hungry and in a sleepy daze I've just popped his dummy back in and fallen back to sleep rather than feed him. Logically I know newborns dont think to themselves 'mum is tired,bless her I'll leave her sleep, I can wait for a bottle" but will scream the house down if hungry - he definitely has during the day if I've missed his hunger cues. He is also a good weight (13lbs 3oz) and feeds plenty during the day so I'm sure he is fine but I cant help but worry that this isn't normal. The health advisor told me at 2weeks it was fine when he did a 5hour sleep,that when he is sleeping he is growing and not to worry. He also had his jabs so he might be just tired from them and this pattern will end.
Should I just enjoy this while it lasts or would you also be worried?

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Ihaveoflate · 15/08/2020 08:44

No I would not be worried. It may or may not last - sleep changes all the time at that age.

mynameiscalypso · 15/08/2020 08:47

That was about the stage that my DS (also FF) started sleeping for longer stretches. It didn't last forever but definitely enjoy it. I don't know about you but my DS has always been very capable at letting me know (loudly!) when he's hungry!

Keyboard91 · 15/08/2020 10:02

My DS did the same around 12 weeks. He’s now 22 weeks and hasn’t had a night feed since. He still wakes multiple times a night for dummy/help settling.

IF (and that’s if) he was hungry, a dummy wouldn’t settle him, you’d soon know if LO was hungry!

Congratulations on your baby ❤️

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babbafett · 15/08/2020 12:53

Thank you all for your comments. I just needed some reassurance from other mums. Motherhood is a mental minefield,especially for a worrier like me.
I will enjoy these nights while I can,I'm sure now that I've posted about it he will be up a million times tonight!

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mindutopia · 16/08/2020 09:46

Yes, this is really normal around this age. They usually have a few weeks of really good sleep between about 2-4 months. Then it often gets particularly difficult again, so you're wise to make the most of it while it lasts.

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