My husband's minupilation and guslighting

[Hulya2]

I am about to divorce my husband. Because of financial reasons he doesn't want to move out until the divorce is finalised. It has been a hell leaving with him. He is narcissist and his guslighting never stop. Unfortunately we have two kids and i am financially not secure to move out. I had moment ones that i was going to loose my mind. Becase he is very good twisting anything I do or say. And put me in the place like i am a crazy person infront family or friends. I do not now how to cope with this anymore.

I didn't want to read and run, but you might get more of a response if you post in the 'relationships' section of Mumsnet. Posters seem to get really good advice and support there.

Good luck

Disengage with him as much as possible. Don't speak to him or communicate or go anywhere with him, until it's finalised and you separate physically. Don't cook, clean or wash for him. Treat him as though he is invisible.

Have you considered contacting Women's Aid for support and advice? They usually have legal support from a lawyer too, so could give you advice on the home situation. Your situation sounds like he's emotionally abusive.