I have a friend who has a toddler and I hadn’t seen her most of my pregnancy, first time I saw them my child was 8 months old and immediately after she got sick for the first time w a high fever.
After that, almost every single Time I saw her/or her daughter , my kid would get sick with a fever up to 103 and we would be in and out of ER. It happened about every single month until in feb. I just decided I didn’t wanna see her anymore bc I rly thot it was from her kid/her.
It’s been five months and my kid has only had one fever that was 101. I’m not kidding when I say she was sick every 3-4 weeks with a 103 fever every time after seeing them.
I’ve seen her post a pic of her kid in 40 degree F weather at the beach playing the water with her clothes soaked . I gusss that’s 4C.
I finally got her to stop harasssing me to hang out (I could go on about why she’s not someone I wanna be around) and now she’s texting me again harassing f me to seee them and idk what to say. I’m pretty certain they were always getting my daughter sick and not only do I not like her as a person for a lot of reasons, but I don’t wanna be In and out of the hospital, I’m always due my second child in 3 months and don’t want them around my newborn.
What should I do? Has anyone had a friend who’s kid always made urs sick?