Hello
I am hoping for some advice or maybe just a space to have a say I don’t know. I’ve had a rough week and feeling a bit down so thought posting may help.
I have two children a toddler and 5 month old and my partner works full time in a demanding role so I feel reluctant to moan about being a full time mum. The little one wakes up at 3/4am and then I try to get him back to sleep till 6/7 when my eldest one wakes up. It’s all been a bit to much lately just with the situation we are all in due to the virus and having a toddler that doesn’t understand. Anyway he had a day off yesterday and he has a drink then goes bed about 3/4am maybe early. When I got up for the baby’s feed I just suddenly thought why doesn’t he choose to get up with the baby so I can have a bit of help I know he works and it’s ‘he’s time’ but while the baby is young and it’s difficult could he not just change his time to help me? It’s the same at nighttime a bath both and get them ready for bed then he takes the toddler which means he sits on our bed while she is in her room. Is it not right for him to tidy/wash up while I bath them or just help with the tidying when they are both in bed? I can’t even ask cause he will go on one and shout about only just being home from work and at the moment I can’t deal with that.