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Pregnant , have toddler, “boyfriend” out all night

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Karorev · 04/07/2020 05:24

I’m from the US I just like this forum better

It’s 4 of July weekend here so fireworks are cancelled from covid but there’s still lots of ppl out and doing things, probably parties etc

My 14 month olds father and I have been broken up for a year and I had been raising her on my own. I had got pregnant again about 8 months post partum from the one time we even had sex since she was born. Pls don’t judge me on this. What’s done is done, I get enough hate, and That’s not what I’m asking advice for.

Anyway we’ve been trying to work things out again, for our kids, and he’s been staying w me at my moms for a few days. Tonight he went to his friends to talk about getting another job with him, but he went over around 6 and it’s 12:30Am. I am worried about these habits being a problem again, I mean I’m 5 months pregnant w a toddler and I’ve been taking care of her alone all day as usual, but now I’m worried he’s out with a bunch of ppl at his friends, In our 20s so a lot of them don’t take covid serious, it’s Friday night before Fourth of July so I don’t doubt he has a bunch of ppl over, at least his gf, sisters and their friends . I just asked what’s he’s doing and said I hope
He’s not at a party with a bunch of ppl and he said he’s just talking w his friend.

I don’t know what to do. I feel like this is unacceptable and I don’t want him sleeping In all day tomorrow so we can’t function.

Help ??

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Karorev · 06/07/2020 11:52

Also my daughter will not go to him. Whenever I ask him to hold her she flips and cries for me. Whenever she sees my mom, she cries for my mom to hold her so I know it’s not just her being clingy toward me like she doesn’t even like him watching her for ten min I think bc he ignores her and doesn’t play w her or like senses his negativity or that I’m unhappy w him :|

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