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Trying to work it out w Child’s father ridiculous fights

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Karorev · 25/06/2020 20:26

Trying to work it out with my 14 month olds father who I am also 5 months pregnant w second child..

I just could go on but how messed up he acts but today, it was so dumb,
My daughters been having contraption on and off for a while, have done miralax and all that but am being rlly strict about her intake of fruit/veggies..

We have Ben staying w him for a couple days bc we are trying to work it out. The only fruit she will eat lately is watermelon. I have zero control of that. She spits out other fruit we buy, and we ran out of watermelon. We went for a walk this morning and I brought it up again after bringing it up last night and this morning she needs watermelon, she woke up at 930, it was 1pm and he was going out to get his haircut and stuff probably wouldn’t be back till 4pm so I was implying we should just pick it up really quick.
And he got really angry and said no she can eat the plum at the house. I tried giving her a plum the day before and she kept spitting out, and he’s like well she eat some of mine . Ya , she may have ate two tiny bites that’s not gonna help w constipation but he doesn’t get it bc I’m the one who takes care of her 24/7. He’s staying at a place four hours away and I don’t have my car. Anyway, yes I got mad after he kept saying she will be fine until 4pm with a plum bc I don’t agree. She’s has severe constiparion on and off and I know she won’t eat the plums, 4pm is only dinner time and she needs more servings throughout the day.

Then he got pissed at me and has been fighting all day about this. My daughter was sleeping in the car after the walk and all we had to do was stop at the store 10 min away run in to get a watermelon and go back home. It really was extremely simple, then he was saying that I shoulda known and got Moore stuff when we went a couple days ago. Well my bad for not picking up enough fruit I just don’t see why it’s a big deal to get some really quick and not make her wait til 4pm for fruit when she keeps getting constipated

This is ridiculous for him? Am I right? I’m starting to think I don’t wanna work it out...

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SomeoneElseEntirelyNow · 26/06/2020 15:00

Neither of you sound mature enough to be in a relationship tbh.

I'd go your separate ways, get a visitation agreement written up and confirmed, file for CMS etc if you're not doing 50/50.

UpsyDaisysarmpit · 26/06/2020 15:16

If your daughter will only eat watermelon, then yes, he should have got the watermelon, but have you spoken to the Dr about her constipation? Syrup of figs is also good, and prune juice. Plenty of fluids.
My own daughter at that age suffered from it. It is no fun.

UpsyDaisysarmpit · 28/06/2020 14:57

PS. Haircut?

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