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Worried about 3 year old

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InTheFamilyTree · 28/05/2020 20:14

Any child psychologists or counsellors around? Please help, I'm so worried about my just turned 3 year old. She was always such. Sunny, happy little girl, full of fun and beginning to show empathy for others, but over the last few months she has turned I to such a nightmare.

The last few months, possibly since before lockdown she seems so unhappy, she cries every day and is very controlling, hard to please. She sometimes makes a moaning, groaning, mithering noise but can't verbalise what's wrong, or what she wants/needs. We try and empathise and suggest what she's feeling and why, all the stuff the books say (!) but it doesn't seem to make much difference.

Bedtimes are a nightmare, she shares with her sibling (nearly one), and one of us will lie down with her as she goes to sleep. Even this is becoming difficult, she doesn't nap any more but does seem tired in the day. Despite this cannot get her to sleep earlier.

I am absolutely at my wits end, and wondering if my child is seriously disturbed.

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InTheFamilyTree · 28/05/2020 20:17

Apologies for the typos, have obviously forgotten how to proofread Confused

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JoMumsnet · 29/05/2020 08:51

We're moving this thread over to our Parenting topic at the OP's request.

Sorry you're going through such a difficult time, @InTheFamilyTree - we really hope some Mumsnetters will be along soon with some advice and support. Flowers

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Helbel82 · 29/05/2020 10:22

I'm not a psychologist or counsellor but I'm experiencing similar with my DD age 3. She has become very difficult, very demanding, not listening and having daily temper tantrums. To be honest we put it down to her whole routine changing, not seeing grandparents and not going to nursery and us trying to work from home whilst looking after her as it seems to have got progressively worse. Is your DD at nursery? We are sending ours to nursery next week when it reopens and will see if this has a positive effect on her. Sorry I can't be much help, you have my sympathy. It's so difficult!

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