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I'm back again...

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Baby2305 · 27/04/2020 10:58

So here I am back again, I'll just give a brief update on what happened last time and then I'll go from there.

Last time I asked what to do about my partner with his debts and stuff > we argued > he decided to leave me > we have started getting on well again > now his mother is involved.

I have said that right now I don't think it's a good idea he comes and lives with me whilst still being out of work. Having no income and therefore he would be freeloading on me.

His mother can't see my point and has spun around with when she was younger she wouldn't know when her next pint of milk would come in etc... but when I said that I prioritise my bills first before anything else - she's made me feel guilty. Yet, little does she know he left me but that's another story. So I ended up crying in her garden and she just kept going on and on.

He's brought up now about us getting a house and me up and leaving my flat - which right now he doesn't have a sturdy job and I will never move unless my name is the only one on the tenancy - it's for my own piece of mind and for my own stability.

What does everyone else think?

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OliviaBenson · 27/04/2020 11:18

I don't know the back history but of course his mother is trying to offload him, she's clearly sussed out that he's just freeloading off her. Why are you in discussion with it all with her?

Just say no! Do you have kids together? He left you and it seems to be he's trying to win you around now as life isn't as cozy at his mums.

And how exactly is he going to fund this house he wants you to move into?

Why are you with him? What does he bring to your life?

Baby2305 · 27/04/2020 11:40

We currently have a child on the way. But all he does is be obsessive and I feel manipulated when he tries to talk me into things.

He's freeloading with her. He's freeloaded with his old man. I can't afford to take their child in when I can just afford a food shop myself.

Stressing me right out and bringing me down.

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PinkDramaLlama · 27/04/2020 11:49

You relationship is nothing to do with his mother. Ignore her.

Keep doing what is right for you and you baby.

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