The NHS website has helpful info on weaning. At this age you should be offering 3 meals a day, all including fingers foods and including at least 1 source of protein. No snacks until one. Water offered with meals.
Are you all eating together? Since 5 months DD2 has sat in the high chair at meal times and we have her food from 6 months, sometimes she ate other times she just played with the food. It’s only since 8 1/2 months she really started to get food.
9 months and breast feed so milk feeds vary and sometimes she has more milk than this but this is an average day. She obviously doesn’t have all that food at each meals but I’ve included some ideas.
6.00 milk
7.15 milk
7.45 breakfast, chunks of fruit, toast and butter or peanut butter, cereal and oat milk (dairy, soya and coconut allergy)
10.30 milk
12.00 lunch sandwich egg or tuna, cucumber and pepper sticks, baked potato and veg chilli, sweet corn and courgette fritters and fruit purée.
3.30 milk
5.00 dinner bolognese sauce and pasta, chicken casserole and mash, curry and rice, salmon new potatoes and veg. More fruit purée
7.15 milk
10 milk
2.00 milk
Other than fruit purée which I hide her vitamins in nothing is blended. I do chop up kidney beans, chickpeas and prawns into small bits. Some days children get huge amounts and others hardly any.