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Should we worry about 2.5yo sensitivity to noise

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FullOfCake · 30/03/2020 20:33

My 2.5yo has become completely obsessed with loud noises, to the point he tells us he's worried. A few weeks ago we had builders in, who annoyingly started drilling below his bedroom when he was napping. He woke up completely terrified to the point I had to cradle him. Since then I've had to sit with him at bedtime. But now in the day things that never bothered him before like the bin men, he used to wave at them, he cowers behind me, even when they're quiet because he's anticipating noise. The hoover, the kettle, cars outside, even us walking upstairs while he's sleeping....its getting abit ridiculous. Should we worry this is more than the builder event, could it be early autism signs? We're at a loss what to do. He has quite noise in his room but he seems to jump at everything now day and night

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NuffSaidSam · 30/03/2020 20:45

I think it's unlikely to be autism given its sudden onset and direct relation to a traumatic event.

You need to not give it any attention. If he's scared and hiding behind you, you can just say calmly 'DS, it's the bin men, let's wave' and wave as you would normally. Ignore him hiding behind you. If he's frightened of the kettle just completely ignore the fact that he's scared and talk about something else so maybe 'I'm making a cup of coffee and then we're going to read some books. Why don't you go and choose the books?'

It should pass soon.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 30/03/2020 20:48

I wouldn’t be worried- when my washing machine of kettle is on my 2.5yr old will ask “what’s that funny noise” and sometimes “I don’t like it”....loud episode of waffle dog though absolutely fine. I think they are just becoming more aware, and can verbalise more than ever before.

Bflatmajorsharp · 30/03/2020 20:54

My dd has always been hypersensitive to noise. When she was about the same age as your ds, someone started hoovering in the library, she freaked out, and it took me a LOONG time to persuade her go back into that library again. I didn't hoover at home when she was there until she was about 9.

Swimming pools, cinemas, parties etc she hates the noise/volume at them all and just can't cope.

She has found strategies to deal with these situations eg asking the cinema to turn the sound down, going swimming at quieter times now that she is 13.

Not autistic, but also very sensitive to touch of fabrics, smells etc.

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