So I’m in a really tough situation, I have never posted anything before but see how great the advice is and hoped You could tell me I’m not going insane.
I have known my partners mum longer then I have been with him. I worked with her for years and me partner 3 years. We got introduced by his mum and quickly I fell pregnant after 3 months with my DS1. Me and my partner had a rocky start a lot of trust issues, but we managed through. My family and his was against both of us being together. His mum would refuse to let me in the house refused to even acknowledge me even when I was in labour and she walked past and ignored me! But we then spoke after baby was born and I tried to get over everything that went on. We then got on well and she came over and see me and my son. She always insisted she would have him over night but I wasn’t ready for anyone to take my son yet. Then me and my partner found out I was pregnant again with ds2 which was a happy time for a while, till my mil asked to have my son and I said not tonight we will arrange another night. Well she hasn’t spoken to me for 6 months! In that time I have actually had my second son by emergency c section. My partner walked out 5 days before Christmas and She demanded to see my dc1 on Christmas Day but I was actually in labour (he was born on Christmas). She has not seen my ds2 yet and askes my partner if you bring the children in and she ( meaning me) can wait in the car. She doesn’t want anything to do with me. She is now threatening court proceedings with my partner and me. But I haven’t actually refused she hasn’t asked me to see the children. I don’t feel as if my children should be apart of this. My partner doesn’t defend our family at all. My sons are 2 year and 3 months old. It’s taking its toll on me now. There’s an event coming up with his family and me and the children are not invited. I’m at my Whits end and I don’t know what else to do. I tried asking to talk to her and she refuses saying she hates me.
Am I wrong in thinking she’s being out of line?