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Is this a toddler phase?

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Bluebell121 · 09/03/2020 11:00

Hi my toddler is 2 year old 3 next month and she's going through what I hope is a phase recently and it's getting me really down I don't no how to deal with it or help her realise it's not true or even where the hell shes got it from to be honest?! , example 1 , we was walking with a friend to play group she was holding my friends hand we was on a very narrow path and she wanted to get past but couldn't get past the pram so she told my friend right Infront of me that I hurt her? So I asked why she said that she said because she couldn't get passed me , example 2 , I was on my ladies and I was in agony ( I have bad periods) I was crying and my phone charger port broke I asked my partner to take it and fix it incase eldest school rang due to been on a trip , she then told nursery that daddy took mummys Phone mummy was crying and was unwell ? Nursery asked me if everything's ok at home I was mortified! & today I fell over a cup I dropped from washing up my partner came over to help me up and she shouted at him saying daddy why you hurt my mummy! We instantly reassured her that what she was thinking wasn't true? But she was right infront of me to know her dad didn't do anything or better yet wouldn't do anything like that?! It's really getting me down now I've cried about this because she's telling people about these little stories and I don't no where she's got it from or why she's doing this but if she ever said that to someone she doesn't no or better yet nursery there instantly going to think the worst! I don't shout at her or anything so I'm so confused to why she's doing it , is it a phase or has anyone else been through this? I'm so upset about her coming out with this

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Kittykat93 · 09/03/2020 15:05

I'm confused. You're crying, in pain. She's just saying what she sees. Yes toddlers create stories but from the examples you've given I can see why she's said what she did! She's not old enough to understand these situations and is interpreting them how she sees them.

Bluebell121 · 09/03/2020 15:09

@@Kittykat93 no what I was saying is she seen me fall over the cup but instantly blamed it on her dad and said he pushed me ? There's never been any source of violence/shouting etc for her to come up with this so I am confused , I don't understand what your post means? I think you may of read it wrong

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Bluebell121 · 09/03/2020 15:10

@Kittykat93 I understand example two is just what she sees but the other examples are why confuses me

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