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6 Month Old - Short Naps Help

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lineandsinker · 03/03/2020 10:47

Hi,

I’ve got a DS aged 6m. He will not nap for longer than 30 mins at a time - it’s like he has an internal clock set to wake him up at exactly 30 mins after going to sleep.

As a result, he ends up having 5 short naps in the day, but according to the NHS, he should be napping 3 times per day for 1.5 hours at a time and over the next few weeks, dropping down to 2 naps.

He has no problems with night sleep - he goes down at 7.45pm and wakes up at 7.30am. He might have a brief night wakening around 4am for his dummy every now and again.

I’ve tried extending his awake time in case he isn’t tired enough to sleep for a sustained period but he generally can’t go longer than 2 hours between naps and ends up really grumpy and tearful. It isn’t boredom as I change his activity and he still continues to cry and rub his eyes.

I’ve also tried gently rousing him 25 mins into his nap to reset his sleep cycle but he sleeps for 5/6 mins more and then is awake again. He isn’t upset when he wakes up, is quite happy.

He sleeps in a pitch black room in his cot and I don’t struggle to get him down for naps - he’ll go off within 2-3 mins of being put in there.
An interesting thing is that he naps for a long time in his car seat or pram when out and about; he’ll manage 1-1.5 hours in there easily, even if the pram / car seat are brought indoors after to continue the nap.

Not sure if I’m doing anything wrong or whether he’ll developmentally catch up in time.

Any suggestions would be gratefully received!

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Burgerandchipvan · 03/03/2020 12:16

My DS only ever had short naps until we went down to one nap at 14 months and was much later than his peers when it came to dropping naps. TBH, if you're getting a decent night sleep out of him I'd leave it for now and just follow his lead.

Teacaketotty · 03/03/2020 12:18

Second the PP, follow his lead as long as he is getting enough sleep then that’s all that matters! Bonus you are getting a full night sleep too - I wouldn’t want to mess with that!

SomeoneElseEntirelyNow · 03/03/2020 19:36

You've read the NHS guidelines but he hasn't- he's just doing what works for him. If you're getting good night sleep and youve got s generally happy kid, I'd let him have his non-NHS-approved naps!

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HappyGoLuckyHippo · 03/03/2020 19:48

Each of mine (22 months and nearly 7 months) has done/is currently doing this. I tried loads and made myself so annoyed and worried the first time around. This time I'm just going with the flow. My first started sorting his naps as time went on and it wasn't down to anything I'd done.
I'd say don't worry one bit and enjoy the lovely night time sleep!

lineandsinker · 03/03/2020 20:53

Thanks all. Will continue as I am doing!

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mynameiscalypso · 03/03/2020 20:58

Exactly the same here! I'll occasionally get 45 minutes out of him (particularly if we're out in the pram but we generally have 4 or 5 short naps a day (DS is 6 1/2 months). He's a very happy baby so I'm just going with it for now.

Christmadtree · 03/03/2020 21:32

My wee one is 6m and the same, although will sleep in a vibrating chair, on me or in pram etc for longer. I have a theory that it's because she's on her own without movement or my heartbeat etc so she doesn't go into a deep sleep when in her cot. She's fine at night unless teething, but she's still in our room atm. Just go with it if you and baby are happy.

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