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Normally happy one year old suddenly miserable

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EeeyMacarena · 29/02/2020 18:36

One year old suddenly very whiny and clingy

Hi all. DD is almost one and normally very happy. However, for the past couple of weeks she’s been VERY clingy and grumpy. She cries if I’m not within touching distance, and howls if I leave the room. Sometimes I’ll be in the room with her playing with her or holding her and she’ll still be whinging. It’s not any old cry, it’s an ear piercing SHRIEK!

She’s normally a great sleeper but her sleep has become awful recently. Normally she’s in bed by 7/7:30pm and will sleep until 6:30/7am, but now we’re lucky if she’s asleep before 11pm. That or she’ll go to sleep at 7pm but will then wake up 5/6 times in the night. Last night she didn’t fall asleep until 2am and was up for the day at 6:30am! Exhausted isn’t the word. I’m a full time uni student and it’s a real struggle to get to lectures sometimes!

She doesn’t have a temperature, nappies normal, still eating and drinking well, so I don’t think she’s ill. She still has sunny periods but they’re much rarer than before. Most of the time she is whining or crying.

I admit I’ve become quite frustrated and upset with her recently as I can’t seem to make her happy, and the constant whining coupled with the poor sleep is really getting to me. My partner does help as much as he can, but he works full time so isn’t at home very much during the week. Starting to feel like a terrible mum as my child is so miserable. I want my happy girl back! She has just started walking and becoming a lot more ‘chatty’. Could this explain it?

Has anyone else experienced this?

Thanks 😊

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Timbob33 · 01/03/2020 19:15

Could be a bit of separation anxiety. Both mine did this around the age of 1. My son is going through it now at 14 months. I also can't leave the room without him either getting upset or following me. It passed quite quickly with dd (a few weeks) so I hope it'll pass soon for ds too. I found lots of cuddles and reassurance helped with dd. But it is very draining when you try so hard to comfort them and make them happy but nothing seems to work, so I can sympathise!

IceColdCat · 01/03/2020 19:19

I was also thinking separation anxiety. Try to get too frustrated OP - it's a normal developmental stage. Hopefully it won't last too long!

BillywilliamV · 01/03/2020 19:19

It's just a stage I expect, they go through dozens. Just when you reach the absolute end of your tether with one, they start a new one.

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Alanna1 · 01/03/2020 19:21

If it goes on, I’d go to your GP for advice. Something that is outside your child’s “normal” and persists is worrying. I wonder if she’s in pain for some reason that you can’t see.

PirateWeasel · 01/03/2020 19:31

If it's any consolation, I'm currently going through this with my 17 month old. Having a toddler is 100 times more frustrating than a newborn in my experience! Can't wait to get my happy, adventurous boy back!

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