I love Harry Potter, and my two older DS age 7 and 5 are developing a love for it too. They’ve watched the first 3 films and we’re reading Philosopher’s Stone together.
Today I asked them which house they’d like to be in. DS5 said Gryffindor. DS7 said Slytherin, because he wants to win!
I’m strangely unsettled by this! Thing is, he does love to win, hates to lose, and is going through a phase (I hope) of being rather unkind to his brother - asking him the answer to maths questions he doesn’t know for example, telling him his drawings are ‘rubbish’, occasionally pushing him if he’s in his way etc. Obviously I discipline and talk to him about all of this. He saves his bad behaviour for home. At school he’s popular and would never dream of acting like that to his friends.
So his answer got me thinking, am I raising the next supporter of the Dark Arts?! And what can I do about it? I try to talk to him about how lucky he is, how it’s important to be kind, why we do things as a family like donating to food banks...
For what it’s worth, I know I’d be in Hufflepuff, and I’m quite proud of it! What’s wrong with being a hard worker and a good loyal friend anyway?!