My mum died when I was 18 so my children have never met her. My dad remarried and his wife is lovely with my kids and she's known as Grandma.
We have a photo of my parents in their younger years up in the house and my daughter (aged 2) has started to point at it and say mummy. I'm quietly very happy that I look so like my mum that my daughter mixes us up but in response I've only gone as far as explaining that's my mummy and Grandad.
It's hard to know how much to explain to her given her age, even down to what to call my mum as I never thought as a teen to ask her whether she'd be a Grandma, Nana etc. I want to share how wonderful my mum was with my children but not complicate her relationship with my step-mother who treats all her grandchildren the same, blood relatives or not.
If anyone has any experience of similar circumstances or advice I would be very grateful!