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Playgroup politics!

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Daisz · 06/02/2020 14:34

So I have been attending playgroup for around 1year now with my dd who is 2.4years. I have made no friends, but everyone is polite enough in a superficial way. I am quite a reserved character and my dd is the opposite very sociable and friendly, and loves going up to all toddlers and babies to interact, however I get the feeling that some parents do not really appreciate an outwardly sociable child. For example today as dd was climbing down the stairs the little boy that was in front who is just a couple of weeks younger than dd, stopped and was struggling a bit, so dd held is hand and tried to help him. He snatched his hand away, and after a little while when this little boy was still struggling dd tried to help him again, his mother then said in quite an abrupt way to her ds, well if you don't want someone to touch you then that is your right, before scooping him up and running away. I thought my dd was showing how kind and compassionate she was being, and I felt so proud of her. I think the little boys mothers reaction was over the top. I think I would have said something along the lines of, oh that is so nice the little girl is trying to help you. To be offended at a 2 year old, trying to hold another 2 year olds hand is ludicrous in my book. Are there other people that feel this way? Or is this where our society has now reached, just interested in hearing other people's point of view.

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74NewStreet · 06/02/2020 14:39

She’s a weirdo. But you’ve been attending the group for a year and this is the only instance of nuttiness you’ve encountered, so you know it’s not normal.

catchyjem · 06/02/2020 14:58

Yeah, she was over the top. Don't worry about it. You'll come across loads more of stuff like this unfortunately.

Pilot12 · 06/02/2020 15:10

Unfortunately this is normal behaviour, a toddler took a toy off my baby the other day, my baby wasn't bothered and picked up something else. The toddler's Mum snatched the toy off her daughter, gave it back to my baby and told me off for "facilitating bad behaviour by her toddler". Just let it go over your head, you'll meet many more Mums like this.

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EssentialHummus · 06/02/2020 15:15

She was in the wrong. But I think in that situation I'd have called my DD back/asked her to leave him alone - because climbing stairs is tricky at the best of times and throwing another child into the mix can make it harder, and because he clearly didn't want to hold hands/had snatched his hand away the first time.

74NewStreet · 06/02/2020 15:16

Were you supposed to snatch it back yourself to teach her toddler manners, Pilot?!

Pilot12 · 06/02/2020 15:40

Yes 74NewStreet, I got told off for not doing that! I might have done if it had made my baby cry but he really didn't care.

Daisz · 06/02/2020 16:15

I feel like there is no pleasing some people. Which is probably why I do keep myself to myself. When two year olds do their usual rough and tumble people are up in arms, and when they show their softer side then that is no use for some people either. I really wish people would just accept a two year old for what they are and leave it there, but very few parents do seem to hold this view point.

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