Hi all, I’m new on here and have been going through difficult times. I will keep this brief to start but happy to give more details when needed.
So brief background separated with my ex just over a year ago. Have a now 18 month old son with her. She had a History of drugs before we met and bad relationships. During our time together small issues, self-medicating with alcohol, codiene and the odd occasion of illegal drugs, cocaine being her drug of choice. She has a weak heart, unknown cause, possibly drug related from before. Just after we split saw a message where she orders to be dropped off to her £100 of drugs, reported this, welfare check done with no concerns.
Over the year we have tried again early on but didn’t work. I still believe she is self medicating, has self harmed before. Communication has been limited, emails but infrequent responses, I get my son every Sunday but collect from her parents, she is not present during this. So this Friday used a different phone to call and she answered to confirm this Sunday, then a short while later received a text on this phone stating “where u to? Can I stop by for another line babe? Really enjoyed seeing you”. This was at 1644 and definitely whilst she had our son and the message was not intended for me. An error from her
Obviously this alarmed me so tried to contact her but got little response and met with aggression. Tried again and her mum answered and didn’t want to listen. Contacted her dad who did listen but said it’s no concern and could have been a message from anyone.
Contacted CPS and reported it. My concerns are she is still breastfeeding at night and I believe she is taking cocaine whilst looking after our son. I feel helpless in this matter as it seems her parents are just brushing this away.