I wrote a post a while ago about my 5 yo DS being labelled the naughty kid at school. He has settled down with his behaviour but his school have concerns about him which include his fine motor skills, co-ordination and gross motor skills, social skills, concentration and impulsive behaviours. He tries his best at school and is never rude or aggressive - he just struggles to stay still etc. His teacher spoke to the SENCo (I don't think she actually saw him) who advised me to see my GP.
From then I feel like I am being fobbed off everywhere. The GP referred to community paeds who replied with a standardised letter saying they don't see children with behavioural problems until they are 7. They suggested speaking to our children's centre. I spoke to the children's centre who said as the school are the ones who have identified issues they should be looking into it. So I am back with the school.
I feel like I'm running in treacle - I am going to go back and speak to the school but don't known what I should be expecting them to do. The lady at the children's centre mentioned at EHA and said the school could do this. I am looking into private assessment for ADHD/autism but I don't want to do this if the school then won't accept any diagnosis made etc.
Any help or experience would be really appreciated. Sorry for the essay