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Please can someone come and talk to me about DS being Bullied!

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MellowMa · 28/08/2007 11:38

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kittywits · 28/08/2007 11:39

What's happened?

Desiderata · 28/08/2007 11:39

What's happening?

MellowMa · 28/08/2007 11:40

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MellowMa · 28/08/2007 11:41

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Tigana · 28/08/2007 11:42

What are school doing about it? and for you and your ds.

Cowardice · 28/08/2007 11:42

So p6 boys punched a p3 boy?

Disgraceful. You haven't brought him up a sap, how is he supposed to react to being bullied???

expatinscotland · 28/08/2007 11:43

They're major saps for having to gang up to pick on a little boy in P3.

MellowMa · 28/08/2007 11:44

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Desiderata · 28/08/2007 11:46

No way is this your fault, mellow! And he's no sap ... It was two against one, and your ds is younger.

From what you can gather at the moment, is he being systematically bullied, or is this a one-off playground incidence of school-boy aggression?

CatIsSleepy · 28/08/2007 11:46

ah mello, don't say he's a sap, he's just a little kid...

sounds like the school are taking steps, that's good.

hope he's ok

Whizzz · 28/08/2007 11:48

Poor DS - don't blame youself. It sounds as though the school is doing their bit. Could you maybe talk to him about some tips for staying out of their way (stay in a group with other friemds etc) & ensure he knows what to do if anything else happens ?

Cowardice · 28/08/2007 11:50

Crap

I would feel the same way you do. I would want to go & bring him home asap.

Is this the normal way to react to bullying? Keep the bullies in at play times?

Lazycow · 28/08/2007 11:50

Well actually if two older boys are punching him in the tummy he is NOT a sap, he is the victim of an assault. If you were hit in the street by two bigger people, would you think it was your fault?

What did the school say? I think they really have a responsibility to sort this out.

I can however understand your worry about yor ds being able to stand up for himself and to maybe work out in advance how to avoid the situation happening in the first place. There are however some situations which can't always be avoided and the important thing is for your ds not feel like it is his fault that this happened but at the same time to be empowered to feel like he has some control and to have some strategies and plans in place so he can try and avoid this happening again. - Not an easy task and difficult even for adults who are victims of assault.

Have you (or he) considered him taking up some sort of martial art? My BIL used to teach this and swears that it really helps young children to have more confidence in themselves. Also maybe he needs to learn more about how to stand up tall and and to answer back. Also when to run etc.

Sorry I can't be more help but I do feel for you - it is just awful when we see our children treated like this.

Lazycow · 28/08/2007 11:52

oops - type too slowly -I see the school have taken the appropriate action

wheresthehamster · 28/08/2007 11:57

On the positive side the school have reacted immediately and invoked their bullying policy which isn't always the case.

Tigana · 28/08/2007 11:58

Stay strong mellowma. I don't blame you for wanting to dash up to the school and 'rescue' him. But don't, eh? .

Maybe though the school's actions will be enough to shock the bullies into not repeating this.
You don't know if they are 'serial bullies' or if this was a one off/first time for them. Here's hoping they learn their lesson.

MellowMa · 28/08/2007 12:05

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