I'm a sahm to toddler twins. Does it get any easier? When my husband comes home from work sometimes I feel so tired, I can't even string a sentence together. I feel I don't have time to think sometimes.
My in laws are very helpful and take them once a week so that I can just get things done, run errands etc, they are hard to do with twin toddlers in tow. Also getting out and about to places without 4 walls is difficult as they run in different directions - difficult with reins too. My mum lets me pick to the shops sometimes but she always says to me not to leave her too long - I wouldn't anyway but I don't relax when she says that, I just rush back.
I rushed to a shop yesterday and I saw people having a quiet coffee in a shop and I just felt so lonely. I do all this work at home and no one acknowledges it or even cares.