My sister has a new boyfriend. I'm really happy for her. She doesn't get to see much of us anymore because he lives away - and she visits him mostly (they don't live together yet).
Recently I feel she expects us to drop tools when they're this way instead of his home town. She's like I'm home, and coming over. I got so upset yesterday as I've had a really busy week, I've got my own life too - 2 under 2, married - and she wanted to come over. I said no and she said I was rude - saying she was away next weekend. Told her tough 🤷🏻♀️. I feel nasty and guilty.
It's difficult. She doesn't have kids either and doesn't understand naps , and that we can't just hang out anytime. I feel like we're on different planets. I've tried to organise something with her and she just wants to be spontaneous.