Getting really upset over the thought of my 2 year old going to school in the near future

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Ok some of you might think what on newer women but my son is 2 doesn't start school till 2021 but honestly it really really gets me, every other day I find my self crying over him going to school, I have my youngest too who is currently 4 months, but my eldest has from day 1 had a very strong character I really struggled the first year or so with I think PND it wasn't towards him it was me doubting my self, I feel like he has truely taught me so much and with his super strong character that lights up the room I just honestly love the lazy mornings, the playing and 2 year old nature ! I work I own two business but I am lucky to be able to work part time, so I get a good balance, but I just feel like my days are limited and I'm struggling with the thought of him growing up

You’re in danger of ruining the time you have with your son by worrying so much about the future.
I had one start school last year and one this year. They absolutely love it, so it’s hard to be anything but happy for them.

Home school?
Also yes try not to imagine it as he's two. You can't imagine him older and at school. X

I remember the utter sadness. But, by the time he got to the age, he was ready for school. And yes, life isn’t quite the same ever again but my son adores it so much he’s visibly upset this week (half term).

If you're crying over something that won't happen for two years, I would suggest you see your GP, as it's not normal to obsess over things like this, I promise. You're spoiling the time you have now by worrying about something that you ultimately can't stop.

School days can be a lifesaver anyway - plenty of time to get the housework or anything else done (socialising with friends etc) and then all evening and weekends with your son. So when the time comes, everything will be fine :).

I sympathise but think on - your distress will affect him especially if he's got 2 years before he goes to school. If you're weeping about it and cuddling him too much now then he really isn't going to do well when he goes - you will be holding him back emotionally. To say nothing of what you're doing to your younger child.

Go and see your GP.

My first- and only - baby started school this year. He absolutely loves it and cant wait to go in the morning. He is learning so fast and we are very proud of him. He was disappointed that its half term this week like a previous poster said! But I have this week off and we are doing lots of lovely things together x

I saw a quote recently - something like "don't suffer it twice" - I've got quite bad anxiety but it's really helping me. It essentially means - focussing on it and feeling bad about now won't help and you'll only suffer 2x for it. Try to be more in the moment now, if that's what you really enjoy.