Hi, I've been trying to BF my son for 5 weeks (he's 5 weeks old) and have come up against a few challenges. He has onw formula bottle at night but other than that is breastfed. He's had his tongue tie cut, I have a rather fast flow and he has issues opening wide enough to latch... he even has a terrible habit of sucking the nipple in like a strand of spaghetti! It's been this way since before the bedtime bottle was introduced so I'm confident it's not nipple confusion. As a result I've had bleeding and white/pink blanching on the ends of my nipples and shooting pains in the breast and nipples between and during and after feeds. I've tried every BF position possible I think and an using hydrogel pads, compresses, nipple cream and jelonet to heal the nips. I've seen midwives, BF groups, a private lactation consultant and am taking him to a cranial osteopath (potential forceps delivery trauma as suggested my LC). He thrashes around on the breast at the start of a feed and pops off loads and gets very stressed too. I've also tried expressing before a feed to slow the flow, plus doing laid back BF to slow it too. Now that's the history, but my main question is how do you manage the pains from vasospasm of the nipple as that's what the issue is apparently. Its caused by mammory constriction and nipple trauma and raynauds has been ruled out. Any advice other than resting them every now and then and expressing? I'm hoping for a magical fix that I don't think exists! But the burning, stabbing pain means me dreading the next feed and crying during latch sometimes.. but it comes and goes. Help please!