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Please help with overtired baby!

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Overtired123 · 22/10/2019 17:49

12 week old
We are in a cycle of over tiredness. I understand her tiredness cues and have had success in putting her to sleep as soon as I see them but she then naps for too little time meaning she’s still tired every time she wakes up (so constantly tired). She will only nap for long periods on someone, outdoors in sling or in the car. She is so happy and rested after these naps and everything is so much better.

The issues are:

  • she never just nods off like some babies do - she takes rocking, singing and actively putting to sleep or she fights it
  • She never nods off in the pram - seems to become more alert
  • I can get her to sleep on me for up to 1.5 hours but can rarely transfer to bassinet (she wakes after 10 mins in there)
  • She settles herself back to sleep at night but never in the day

Will she naturally grow out of this or should I be doing something now? I obviously don’t mind her napping on me sometimes but I’d like to be able to put her in the bassinet sometimes and get stuff done! I’d also really like her to sleep in the pram because she starts crying after being awake in it for over about 15-20 mins. She’s such a lovely baby when she’s rested but when we get into the cycle, I spend most of my time with her trying to get her to go down whilst she fights sleep!

Any tips appreciated!

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Lalapurple · 22/10/2019 18:00

No real advice. Sounds like my baby (except he does sleep in the pram and I mostly feed to sleep). I hope they will grow out of it...mine is 7 months and hasn't really but all babies are different!

historygeek · 22/10/2019 18:03

Would she sleep in a bouncy chair? My DS liked to be "bounced" to sleep and if he stirred too early a quick rock with the foot would send him back off.

Overtired123 · 22/10/2019 18:07

Thanks both. Lala - I have to go back to work at 7 months so would like to find a solution if I can!

Bouncy chair is definitely playtime for her! She smiles and kicks her legs at me!

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Aria999 · 22/10/2019 22:51

I would say yes and yes. DS was like this and he did grow out of it, but until that time I did everything to get him to sleep and I think it was worth it.

I never believed it would improve but it did and by around 20 months he was doing one 3 hour nap. Hang in there it gets better!

Chelseaftm · 23/10/2019 06:31

My little one went through a stage where he wouldn't nap during the day ! I wound myself up as I kept looking at the sleep recommendations and panicking that he wasn't sleeping enough , in the end I just went with , I did start a kind of nap schedule , which involved swaddling him when he was tired that seemed to really work well , over time he then learnt that he needed to nap . I would deffo Recommend swaddling !

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