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What do you wish you had known about living close to family?

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RocketWoman · 13/08/2007 11:59

After 10 years in the city and being 3 hrs away we are moving back to home town and now will be 20minss from family. I hope it all works out.

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geordiemacminx · 13/08/2007 12:00

It will be wonderful - I live 150 miles away from my family and it makes me realy sad.

Sorry - just feeling a bit miserable today!

heifer · 13/08/2007 12:04

I bet you will love it...

Just think of the babysitting, sunday lunches at your parents house, babysitting...

It is 20 walk or 20 mins by car?

RocketWoman · 13/08/2007 12:07

20mins by car, its the right thing for the family, aged parents and all that it'll be good to be nearby to be able to help out.

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crokky · 13/08/2007 12:10

RocketWoman - we are in the process of doing the exact same thing. I think it is the right thing to do.

heifer · 13/08/2007 12:53

yes, I think you will feel good about being able to help out...

I know that I was with both my mum and dad before they passed away..

Funnily enough - I am moving away from home town now....

RocketWoman · 13/08/2007 18:39

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massivebigpantsface · 13/08/2007 18:43

we moved up to scotland from the south coast to be near my family. It was fantastic to be close to them and we got on so well. It was the first time I had lived nearby to them since I left home at 17.
Unfortunately after 18 months dh and I just couldn't settle in the area and decided to move back south. It broke my heart to leave them and I miss them an awful lot, especially since dd was born, but I feel 'at home' where we live now and very settled and happy.

babyjamas · 13/08/2007 20:28

we did it 7 years ago - we had lived in London for nearly 10 years but decided to move back North to my home town when dd1 was born (already had ds). Honestly was the best thing we ever did. Dc's (now 3 of them) have a fab close relationship with granny and various aunties and uncles and cousins, which would never have been possible when a 4 hour drive was necessary. We live about 15 mins drive from my mum - so close enough but not in each others pockets. Assuming you have a good relationship anyway i think it's a great idea (only downside - i gave up a good job so money is tighter, but quality of life far better).

NannyL · 13/08/2007 20:43

When i grew up i lived a 5 min walk (2 min drive) from my maternal grandparents

a 10 min drive from paternal grandparents.

Until very recently ALL my great grandparenst/ aunts / uncles / cousins (and even most great aunts / uncles, 2nd cousins) lived within 15 min drive as well.

It was / IS great... i am so close to all my family members and always have been. We all saw lots and lots of each other and my siblings / cousins (and even there cousins) are all great mates together and we all grew up together!
Im sure we will all be friends forever too

I really hope when i eventually have my own children it will be the same for them.

Now i have moved out and have my own house etc im still no more than 10 mins from most of my family (4 mins drive from my mum!)

Im sure my mum and dad will agree that living close enough to family WAS great... my grandparenst were often around to babysit when we were small... and as we grew older and more independant our 1st independant cycle rides were from our house to theirs!

They were also always on hadnt to deal with emergancies, ie look after my sister when i got runover... they had arrived at my house in 5 minutes!

My uncle recently moved to Ireland... with his wife and children aged 2 3 and 5, they are only my uncle and his family, but we only see them twice a year now(and have just learnt we wont see them this Xmas) (they are coming over for 3 weeks this friday though )... i find that hard enough.... i cant even imagine not being able to see my sister / mum / dad etc for months at a time!

NannyL · 13/08/2007 20:45

oh yes... even now we have a family sunday lunch about 3 sundays in 4... and regular family teas / BBQs to celebrate all aunts / uncles / cousins birthdays etc, which equates to one evry few weeks! ...

then we have our mothersday / fathersday / graduation / any other possible excuse to meet up get togethers as well

heifer · 13/08/2007 21:52

Hell NannyL I think you have just given RocketWoman a good reason NOT to move so close...

I lived close but never ever had that many sunday lunches or get togethers!

When I had DD I did actually see my mum about 5 times a week, but during the day time so it didn't affect our family (DH, me and DD) time together - DH so wouldn't have liked to have spent that much time with all my family....

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