Temper tantrums

[EmmaJack86]

Looking for advice my 2year 10month keeps having major tantrums normally Ona Monday when husband is taking him to nursery screaming for mummy i understand that as he doesn't want to go to nursery but is totally fine when there.

However this morning he woke up and had a major screaming melt down for mummy when daddy went in just screaming I want mummy's milk (he hasn't been fed off me since 6 months old) currently feeding a 14 week old so don't know why he started shouting for my milk. And then just screaming he wants mummy and when asked why just says coz i do now my poor husband is upset as feels like son doesn't want him/like him I obviously feel upset as husband is upset and that little one having a melt down like that he was shaking and couldn't catch his breath it was that bad

He’s jealous and insecure about the baby. My oldest didn’t have temper tantrums, but needed to be held and kissed as reassurance.

Could you get him up a few minutes earlier, and your husband bring him to you for a little cuddle and reassurance that you love him?

Also, your husband shouldn’t take it personally. Were he nursing the baby, he would be the one your son would call for.

He normally comes on our room on a morning but I'd been up since 4:20 with baby so we were both asleep and hubby then normally takes him down but he doesn't normally react like that to
It he always gets one on one time with ya during day and tell him we love just the same etc it's heartbreaking for him to be so suddenly so jealous as he normally Dotes on his little brother wanting to hug and kiss him all the time! And hubby just feels sad as he just feels like that obviously hard hearing little one scream for other parent when your stood there bless him