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Baby / toddler sleeping on separate floor

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chloechloe · 24/09/2019 21:21

Our 10 month old baby boy is currently sleeping in a cot in our room, but I’d like to get him into his own room in the coming months. The problem is the layout of our house. It’s a 4 storey town house with 2 large bedrooms on the first floor and then 1 small bedroom and an open plan office on the second floor. At the moment we all sleep on the first floor - DH and I with the baby in the main bedroom and our 2 daughters (4.5yo and 2.5 yo) in the other.

The obvious option is to put the baby in the bedroom on the second floor (with a baby monitor, stair gate and smoke detectors obviously). Our daughters are quite happy sharing. I tried to sell the idea of the 4.5yo having her own room upstairs so the two youngest could share but she wasn’t having any of it. There is ample space to put all three of them in one room but this seems a bit too much, especially as the 2.5yo has only just started sleeping through and is still not a great sleeper. We could also put the 3 kids in the two bedrooms on the first floor, with DH and I moving upstairs. But then the kids would have the two biggest rooms in the house and we’d have to give up our super kingsize bed for a small double bed and barely any room for a wardrobe. (I know, that makes me sound hugely selfish...)

I guess I just feel really guilty about him being up on the top floor on his own even though it’s the obvious solution. Does anybody else do anything similar or have any bright ideas?

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BackforGood · 24/09/2019 23:40

Not sure what the issue is.
Of course I'd put him in his own room.

I'd have no issue with it being on a different floor either as our dc were from us.

Bellsofstclements · 25/09/2019 08:29

He'd be fine on a different floor, you'd just been a baby monitor. Equally your 4.5yo would be fine as well so choose which one you want to go there.

chloechloe · 25/09/2019 18:30

Thanks, I’m clearly overthinking it! It just seems strange him being upstairs on his own, it makes me feel guilty!

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Lucylou321 · 26/09/2019 20:51

My 8 month old sleeps on a different floor to everyone else in our house due to the layout of bedrooms. She sleeps amazingly as she's not disturbed by anyone! We have a monitor and I can still hear her with the doors open anyway.

mummabubs · 26/09/2019 21:22

We live in a 3 storey townhouse and have a 2yo. It definitely felt very odd having him on a separate floor after he reached 6 months, but as it's just our bedroom on the top floor we didn't have much of a choice. It's a bit of a pain going downstairs to him in the night and I still have kittens about what we'd do in the event of a fire (but then that's a normal worry to have whether your child is in the room next to you or not!?) You'll be fine OP :)

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