So my 8 year old has issues with friendships at school. It seems one day they are friends the next not. I know part of this is normal but I do feel my little one is more often on the receiving end or the one left out.
I don’t think I’m handling it right at all if my girl tells me things they have done I wanna will say they are horrible, I know I’m not supposed to but I get annoyed that my girl blames herself for their actions. Last week she had her friend here all weekend they played lovely this week the girl is ignoring her and called her annoying. We went to an event today and the girl was there with her elder sister and they both just ignored her. My girl said hello twice to be completely blanked. She dame and told me so I said of they are being horrible just ignore them. But as I said it they walked past (giving her really awful looks). One of them made a sound as they heard, now I’m worried she will pay the price for my words come Monday. I’m prob being too emotional for her, I know I’m supposed to teach her to keep calm but it’s hard watching her be treated that way!
Can anyone offer any words of helpful advice?