Hi all
My daughter starts school on Monday and I would really like to be there. I’ve spoke with her about starting school and she’s really excited. She’s shed that she would like me there to. I’ve text mum twice this week asking if it’s an issue if I went and as usual she ignored me. I spoke to a legal advisor and they said legally there’s nothing anyone can do if I turn up. There’s no reason why I can’t go. I just don’t want to cause any trouble. I sent mum one more text (below) last night and again she ignored me. Any advice please? TIA
It's been 2 days now and you still You haven't replied 🤷🏼♂️. I get I'm not top of your priority list but as with all my txts it's about Bubs and as with most of them you ignore me ?? I spoke with Bubs at the weekend about starting school and how excited she is about Monday, I would really like to be there and she wants me there. Take the leavers party the other week when you ignored that txt. You may not have wanted me there but Bubs did. You saw for yourself how excited she was I was there. She ran up and hugged me and She held my hand as we walked across the car park. You aren't only spiting me Amelia. You're spiting her to.
I hoped it wouldn't come to this but I went to citizens advice yesterday. I also phoned The children's law service and spoke to Ava who's a legal advisor. Legally I can turn up at the school on Monday and no one can do anything, but it shouldn't and doesn't have to be like that. It's for one morning, it's Bubs 1st day of school. I don't see why we couldn't talk about ?? I want to take a picture or 2 and wave her off. What harm would it do? I missed her first ever nativity-play, I don't want to miss her first day at school. I also asked both Ava and citizens advice about the interpretation of the wording in the court order. I read the wording to them , explained the reason for the Thursday contact stopping and that Bubs doesn't start till Monday. They both said that I should see her tomorrow because my contact stops when she starts school and she hasn't started yet. Ava said seeing me Thursday will have no affect on her for when she starts school which is on Monday. I read her your txt when you say how contact stops in September. She rubbished that Because the wording in the order states the commencement of the school term in September. It doesn't say the beginning ie the 1st. I'm not going to start a war over an hour and half but when you consider everything I do think you're being very unreasonable. The fact we can't talk and discuss things makes everything harder than it needs be.