Over the top grandmother?
So I've had a absolute nightmare of a time with my husband's mother. I got sick while pregnant resulting in my little one being poorly too. My husbands mom made such a fuss during my labour that its not fair if my mom came so i couldn't have my mom there even though i wanted her to be he wanted to keep the peace.
After having het all she done was say my little one has colic she has this she has that. i was kept in 11 days and she came every day so i never got any alone time with my mom or my family. She kept telling me i was doing this wrong and that wrong after hospital it got worse she would demand we go to see her at 8pm at night with a newborn. My husband and i argued alot about this. When i went down she would tell me how my baby was in pain and make me feel so low down like i wasn't doing anything right. She'd criticize the way i got her ready what i could and couldn't do. I would cry every night. I was having problems with my husband. I was struggling so hard I'd just had a emergancy c-section and sepsis. My husband started to pull away help wise my little one was 22 days old and he did nothing for 3 days and i mean nothing she rang me asked how things were i explained its abit hard on your own she asked me to ask him to go and see her so i did. He went down wouldn't talk to me stayed there 2 days he came back to tell me his mom told him to take a step back or I'll get depression i explained she told me to ask him to go down so she could ask him to do more. I was furious i went to my moms and vented his mom called my mom to tell her i should leave the baby with her as I'm depressed (sge didn't know she was on speaker) at a month old she demaded i drop her off cause she needs to show the baby to her family i explained it was too soon for me she hung up and told my husband how I'm leaving her out and its ridiciousls. I didnt feel ready for her to be out without me she's my first. She bought my little one chocolate at 2 months old i explained she doesn't eat it yet cause i dont want her to. I wouldn't trust giving a 2 month old chocolate i made a lie and said my doctor said not to give chocolate to under a year she said I'm stupid im daft everyone gives chocolate to babys.i know they dont. She tried to give my baby tap water at 2 months too she demands she has the baby. I feel like i hate the woman it feels like she made my life hell it shouldn't of been that hard. I dont want to see her and i dont really want my little one to see her is that too harsh? What would you do in this situation ?