So today I was in the kitchen cleaning and doing usual chores. And my son was sat on sofa watching a film with his sisters. Next thing he comes to me crying, nose bleeding I look and he has a metal screw stuck up His nose. This is unusual because he never does things like rod ever! I don't know where he found it as I don't have screws lying around, I don't have any as my husband took his tool boxes when he walked out on me. Anyway I was panicking, I asked my mum to come up so she came in a taxi so she could watch my girls whilst I took him to A and E and i was grateful for her help because my husband lives an hour away with his girlfriend now so he's not even local to help. Anyway I informed his dad about what happened and I knew instantly he would blame me for neglect. I knew it. Anyway he comes over and he has such a bad attitude with me telling me why couldn't someone have watched him. What was I doing ect. Saying I can't cope with my 5 kids ect. Anyway we managed to get the screw out at
The hospital and gave my son some antibiotic cream and he's ok thankfully. Scared me so much 😢
Anyway we came home. He had another rant about how none of us can Watch my son and said to the girls ' none of
You have my genes do you'
and he dropped my mum back off home and left, didn't contact me after that and hasn't even contacted me since to ask how his son is now. I feel so bad like it's my fault. It's not as if I carelessly left screws or that I was passed out on the sofa, it was a genuine accident and all I can do is be thankful my son is ok and I learn from it. I love my son to bits and wouldn't deliberately put him though harm, he's made me feel like crap 😢