I seriously have a fear of choking like it is literally my worst fear i have nightmares about it! Dinnertime always makes me anxious. People laugh at me because my babe is now 1 but i still cut her food tiny. I cut her toast into tiny mosaic sized squares, ive never let her have a whole chip to feed herself i even cut her spaghetti until it resembles rice! I let her feed herself wotsits but im terrified to let her try raisins and berries etc. Also my mum says she should be eating a whole fish fingers and chips but i just know she will stuff the whole lot in. My 4 year old still chokes when he eats because he rushes. But everyone says its my fault and ive made the kids this way and made them afraid to eat or they dont know how to eat properly because I never let them. Please share your views!