Leaving toddler overnight

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Hi, first time posting a question so thanks in advance for any advice.

Basically I think I want anecdotal reassurances from you more experienced mums out there.

I'm leaving my 2 year old son for the first time overnight this weekend to attend a wedding and I can't stop worrying about it.

He's being left with my aunt who I'm extremely close with & I trust completely. Thing is, she's not spent huge amounts of one-on-one time with my son although she's great with him when they did see each other. She's got two kids herself, teenagers now.

My boy can be clingy and anxious with other people. He's only really happy being left with me or my partner or my mum. Partner is coming with me to the wedding and my mum is abroad. I need the break! But I'm worried I'll ruin it by worrying.

Reassure me! Any tips for leaving a two year old for the first time? Thank you!

In my experience of having nieces/nephews/random children left in my care, they will play it up royally all the time their parent is in view. Moment they’re gone they’re up for cracking on with the day. Secure attachment comes from the child knowing the parent can leave, but they will be cared for and the parent will be back. So chances are it will be a really good experience for him, he will learn that he can rely on you to ensure he is well cared for when you aren’t there, you will be pleased to see him (and non-guilty) when you return, and he can trust that you will return and things will carry on as normal. Have a lovely time

@Smellbellina that's exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, I feel better already.