Honestly my baby is constantly wanting to feed but is content just shows hunger signs! He’s putting on weight and having plenty of dirty and wet nappies. I feel like I do it all though. In public my partner acts like the doting father, showing him off and holding him constantly but as soon as we are home he hides upstairs and leaves me to look after baby (or offers to have baby up with him, which doesn’t really help as he’s breast fed and he always falls asleep leaving baby on the bed and crying...) I do all the housework with the help of my mum who comes round most days to help me out. AIBU to resent my partner. Everyone acts like he’s such an amazing dad as he is in public but doesn’t do anything for him behind closed doors.
He does work full time and I’m on mat leave, but surely it’s not hard to just pick up your rubbish off the floor or quickly wash some dishes! He dumps his stuff down, and leaves empty packets and boxes around for me to sort out. Yes he’s a serious man child! I’m constantly in tears or on the verge of tears because I’m so exhausted (our baby is hard work) but I can’t sleep during the day because I have to do the housework and tidy up after him! Sorry if this rambling makes no sense I can’t remember the last time I slept!!