Aibu to be upset? My youngest dd is 4 weeks old in a couple days however I noticed just before dh's paternity leave were about to end that he'd not really spent much time with the baby, be it cuddling her, feeding her, soothing her etc however I let it go and thought I were over thinking things due to my hormones. Now dd is almost 4 weeks old and he's definitely 'avoiding' her. He still doesn't spend time with her, doesn't cuddle or kiss her and just isn't loving or tentative towards her like he were our older ds & dd! He were the one who first broached the 'let's have another' conversation leading to us having her so I know it's not that he didn't want her. I have broached the subject with him and he has said he feels as though he hasn't really bonded with her but this really didn't seem to phase him however it's left me feeling totally shattered and really upset. What do I do? 😩