I have a 10 year old son who has always been lovely, we have always been super close and he seemed to enjoy spending time with me but over the last 6 months or so it feels like everything has changed and I don't know if it's just an age thing and I need to stop being so sensitive or if it is actually me doing something wrong. He just doesn't want to spend any time with me anymore, I'm good apparently to take him to school, football training and make his dinner but anything else he doesn't want to know and is really quite rude. Eg. Him and his dad (my dh) have football season tickets but dh can't go this weekend so I offered to take ds with my dd5 and he was up for it because it's the last game but then dss comes along and offers to take him so he says to dh in front of me that obviously he would always choose dss to take him over me because it's more fun and he was only going with me because he desperately wanted to go and didn't think that there was anyone else. Then today he has gone on a school trip and the teacher asked for volunteers so I said I would offer and he told me no way did he want me to help out because it's embarrassing and I need to just stay home and never offer!! This morning he said that he hopes he is in L's Mums group because she is fun so I asked him why she could help out and I couldn't and he said because she isn't his Mum and she isn't embarrassing!! I did ask why I'm so embarrassing but he said I just am and told me to go away.. As far as I know I'm not embarrassing, I give him lots of freedom and space and he always has friends over. I'm a bit overweight (size 16) but not so it's terrible, people don't stare when I'm out in public!! My dh says that there isn't anything wrong with me! He just doesn't want to spend any time with us. He is very grown up and is often mistaken for a 12/13 year old if that makes any difference. It's just weird and a bit upsetting to go from him wanting me around to completely pushing me out and barely talking to me. Is this an age related thing? Is this it now until he has come out of the teenage years or am I genuinely an embarrassment and he no longer likes me?!