Basically my 2 year old son goes to nursery and on Tuesday they had to phone an ambulance because he had partially amputated his finger on a wooden toy chest lid. The lid is very heavy and there is no safety thing on it so it doesn't shut slowly or no foam around it, it just slams down shut. The box is in his nursery room and is full of dressing up stuff which they are allowed to go in and out of as they please.
My son had to be taken to hospital, x-rayed, stay in over night and have an operation under general anaesthetic to repair his nail bed which was severely damaged. It's all bandaged up and there is a chance it could never go back to Normal. It's all bandaged up now after his op and we have to go back next week for it to all be checked.
Now, I don't know what to do about nursery. They have been in touch with me and they have basically said its just an accident that couldn't of been prevented. But I cant help but feel angry they have said it couldn't of been prevented.
If his finger goes back to normal I am happy to leave it at just a complaint but if there is more long term damage or disfigurement then I'm thinking about taking legal action. Am I being unreasonable?
He has been at the nursery for 18 months and he loves it there. The staff are great with him and now I'm just a bit taken back about what to do next.
How would everyone else handle this situation?