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Ex Taking Son on Holiday...

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SarahDoll003 · 27/04/2019 07:57

Hi All,

My ex is taking our three year old on holiday in June.
It's been booked since September and in the meantime things between my ex and I have been hugely difficult, to the point where I've had to send solicitors letters for abuse and harassment.

He now seems to have an expectation that I should buy new items for our son for their holiday, and essentially pack him a case of clothes too.
I'm wondering if I should, or leave it to him as it's their holiday?
I took our son away last summer and didn't get any help for all of the things he needed...he didn't even get ice cream money!

Am I being petty or should it work both ways?

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99calmbeforethestorm · 27/04/2019 08:21

He is taking him on holiday then he should buy and pack clothes. If you were on good terms I would say he had x number of t shirts and shorts and x number of swimming costumes and I will pop them in a carrier bag for you but this would be you being nice. Obviously I would pack comforter and a few favourite toys.

The wife works stops when you are nolonger together.

SarahDoll003 · 27/04/2019 09:25

Thanks for your replies 😊
It's nice to know my thoughts aren't uncalled for!
He started paying CM last month

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