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My daughter is being told awful things

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Em4891 · 13/04/2019 10:41

If any one could offer advice on this I would be very grateful.
All of a sudden this week my dd has decided to go and live with her manipulative father and step mother out of the blue .
She has been suffering with anxiety and self harm for some time and it has come to light now going through her social media messages it has been done for attention.
Her Father and myself split 10 years ago due to him abusing me .
Since middle of last year I have had to endure numerous threats and abuse from him and his partner that I have poisoned my daughter against them when she showed signs of not wanting to go and visit them anymore .
Now all of a sudden after my daughter had another self harm incident and I have been blamed for turns out she has been receiving numerous manipulative messages from both her father and step mum.
Some are truly vile .
One states to my daughter of her step mum showing my 12 year old daughter a message that I self harm .
I am utterly disgusted by this and at the moment they a acting like these wonderful parents when deep down they have manipulated my child back to them and said vile things to her about myself .
Any advice please x

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SpinneyHill · 14/04/2019 19:32

I don't have any advice beyond don't be tempted to play the same game.

Be the reasonable adult, don't let her see your heart breaking but make sure she knows you're there for her, what a shitty situation for you.
Have you discussed with her how often and where you'll see each other?
I hope this is a short term situation it seems a knee jerk response if last year she didn't want to see them

hopefulglimmer · 14/04/2019 19:34

What utter bastards they are. When your daughter is old enough she will be able to see them for who they are.

I am really sorry you are going through this.

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