Hi,
I am in court for the 2nd time tomorrow courtesy of my ex husband. We share 2 DDs and were together 8 years. In June 18, I reconnected with an old friend and it blossomed into a relationship. Ex DH didnt like this as wanted us to try our marriage again. I declined and slowly introduced my partner and DDs to one another and we were happy building our new life together. That is until ex DH saw my new partner take my daughter to school to help me out. He blocked his vehicle in and became verbally abusive, shouting, swearing, demanding my partner get out of his car etc. All witnessed by my eldest dd. Needless to say, she was terrified and their relationship (not that they were ever close) broke down. Police were called and he was advised to stay away. I allowed my youngest dd to see her dad but that ceased when I discovered he was asking her to speak ill of me to record on his phone. My youngest dd has HFA so wouldn't think anything of it.
Since then, he saw them on their bdays in November but then disappeared with 0 contact for 4 weeks. We were in court in dec as he wanted 50/50 contact. This was declined and he was given visitation which had to be supervised by his mother. I have tried where possible to encourage my eldest dd to see her dad but she has no interest. My youngest dd has been given a new room/furniture etc and is dying to sleep over. Now, I'm back in court tomorrow and nervous as yo what expect. The works have had a section 7 carried out but, throughout all of this his behaviour toward me has been vile. I found out last night that his social media pages are full of memes and quotes on bitter mothers, loving fathers and an article about a mum whose children were removed from her for bad mouthing her ex! He has his own business and has quite the following. Am I able to use printouts of these memes as evidence that he cannot be trusted? He calls my youngest dd fat which she reported to CAFCASS as well as referring to me as IT or Her.
Any help/advice/support would be very much appreciated