My 17 year old son is a nightmare spends all his time in his room goes to college 3 days a week...doing ok no interest in a job Tec gets a nursery for bus fares and lunches I pay mobile mum gives him 40 per month pocket money but my problem is he's a typical teen but does nothing at all to contribute to household he doesn't bring pots tidy own room and spends all him time on computer my partner and I have demanding jobs out at 7am home by 4 but both tired and the arguing of him chatting on the gaming till late at night is driving us insane!!!I set rules not talking after 930pm we need sleep but its a constant battle tried ignoring the mess in his room not getting showered but he stinks advice needed pronto at my wits end and thinking to send him to his dad's to live 