DD16 has been brought up my myself and DH. She’s never known any other parent but has always known DH isn’t biologically hers, we didn’t want her to feel lied to at any point and resent us. I’ve been honest with her but have only given her basic facts. DH has always made it clear he loves her enough to be by her side no matter what. The truth is really grim and I’m 100% sure she can’t cope with it at this stage. She’s had a really difficult few years with school and we’re now a few months away from her exams. She’s seen the school counsellor a few times and I’ve been told to keep a very close eye on her, suicide has come up. I found a letter in her bag “to him” with all these questions. Why he left her and does he care etc. I’m not sure how to handle it. He was a horrible man that brainwashed and abused me throughout our relationship and even after. Following advice from police I moved home and have done everything I can to give her a good life. But I understand she feels like something is missing, in her head it’s a glorified reality which really doesn’t exist. Any advice would be really appreciated. I want to help her, I want to make her understand but only when she can cope with it.