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Daytime breastfeeding nightmare

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Louise0410 · 02/02/2019 18:08

Hello

My baby doesn’t like to feed in the day. He is 4 months old and has been like this for months now. We’ve ruled out reflux and allergies (he’s been under a paediatrician and dietician so definitely not a concern). My supply is good (my letdown used to be strong but it’s nowsettled down) and he is gaining weight week. He really likes feeding at night - but he knows it is night - is sleepy after a feed/sleeps from 7pm to 8am (just with lots of wake ups!)

It’s making me sad that I can’t use breastfeeding to comfort him during the day and it also means that ournighttime routine basically involves him getting cfrustrated at the breast and then my husband has to rock him to sleep. It also means I’m up lots in the night and worry that it will be this way until he is much older and successfully weaned.

I’ve tried recreating nighttime conditions in the day, I’ve tried feeding him whilst drowsy in the day, Ive tried feeding him whilst walking around, Ive tried feeding him with no distractions. Nothing seems to work. He seems to get just enough liquid to not be dehydrated but he just won’t feed for more than a few minutes every couple of hours. I offer him the breast constantly and he is just never interested. He has minimal wet nappies in the day but needs changing 4 times at night.

Anyone been through the same and how did you resolve it?

Thanks.

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Her0utdoors · 02/02/2019 18:12

I had similar at that age with dd, she grew out of it. I seems to me 4 months is when babies go from new born blobs to proper little people, it's a hell of a growth spurt and really had work. You're doing everything right OP, it's just bloody hard work!

Louise0410 · 02/02/2019 18:27

Thanks. He’s just never really liked feeding in the day... so I’m concerned he never will and it makes me nervous for trying to wean

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FiresideTreats · 03/02/2019 10:06

Will he feed lying down during the day? On the bed next to you?

It's not the exact same situation but my baby went through a very fussy phase at around this age and would arch away and scream at the breast and lying down in a calm room was the only way I could get him to feed for more than 10 seconds.

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Louise0410 · 03/02/2019 11:04

Sometimes he will... but it’s so hit and miss. It’s so frustrating because in the day he can go up to 5 hours without a feed (I offer way more than this) so I know he would sleep better at night if he fed more in the day.

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miaa123 · 03/02/2019 22:53

He may be getting a lot more than you think... I would check with your midwife.

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