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Panicking please help

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MamaOl · 27/01/2019 20:49

My baby’s father who hasn’t been involved in our lives, i’m so scared of him and what he’s like, even now.

I’m due to be moving house soon within the next two weeks with my 2 year old son, and I feel like I will finally be safe there, with him not knowing where we live.

However his family are involved in my son’s life as i feel it’s the right thing to do, but I have never been able to fully trust them because of him. I’m worried they’re gonna tell him where I live and I will never feel safe
Please help
Worried mother :(

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Tigger001 · 27/01/2019 20:57

Don't tell his family where your new property is and drop him off at their House or a neutral place ?
Would this be an option or have you already told them

JiltedJohnsJulie · 27/01/2019 20:57

So sorry that you feel scared. Have you ever spoken to Women’s Aid about your relationship with him?

Have you got a non-molestation order in place?

Passthepigs · 27/01/2019 20:59

Don’t give out your address. Always arrange to meet his family at their house or a mutal venue.

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MamaOl · 27/01/2019 20:59

I would never leave my son with them because I don’t trust him around my son

No I have not spoken to women’s aid, I wouldn’t know where to start with what to say

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Tigger001 · 27/01/2019 21:27

Sorry I didn't mean drop him and leave him I should have said take him to their house for the visit, is that an option ?
It sounds like you are doing right by your son and letting him know his family, but it must be a scary thing, you should be proud of yourself thus far.
Are the police aware of the situation? Has it been reported he has harmed you previously ?

MamaOl · 27/01/2019 21:45

I made police aware when I was pregnant, he threatened to come round and take my son away from me. I have a chain on the door, and I put a barrier in front of my door at all times. I also have 999 dialled ready & lock my phone screen so if anything is to happen I can just quickly ring them.

I’m always so frightened of losing my son

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